You can no longer file jointly. Only married couples may file jointly. Because both of your names are on the loan and both are on the deed, protecting the property is going to be a tricky proposition. You need to be asking yourselves a big question after you have asked an attorney a big question. The attorney question is "Is there any way to do what we want to do" and "If so, what will it cost" Be sure to tell the attorney that you are already divorced. The ask yourself question turns in part on the attorney's answer. Lots of times when a property goes into default and there is no equity and you can't afford it, even if you could afford it, you have to ask whether it is worth it. I fully understand that there is a lot of sentiment in the family home, especially if one of you and the children still live there, but you have to eat, too and if it is underwater, in default and the payments are too high, the universe is telling you something and it isn't to throw everything you have at a sinking house.
Answered on Jun 28th, 2012 at 5:08 PM