You can discharge the debt in a bankruptcy by not affirming the mortgage. This would also allow you to discharge other debt such as medical bills that you cannot pay.
If you don't have significant other debt, you could contact the lender regarding the possibility of getting rid of the debt through a short sale or a deed in lieu of foreclosure (wherein you agree to turn over the property and the lender does not have the expense of foreclosure), or you could just let the lender foreclose.
At such time, try to negotiate an agreement with the lender that you will not be pursued for the difference in what you owe on the property and the amount the lender receives from eventually selling it (the deficiency).
In the event that you are pursued for the deficiency, you may want to consider bankruptcy.
If the lender forgives the deficiency, the canceled amount may be taxable. Currently, under the Debt Relief Act, you do not have to pay taxes on the forgiven debt.
However, the Act expires at the end of this year, unless it is renewed by Congress.
Answered on Aug 15th, 2012 at 10:06 AM