can you loss a house you live in,in bankrupcy

Whether a bankruptcy trustee will sell any assets you have (including your house)  depends on which bankruptcy chapter you file, the value of the asset, and what exemptions you have available under applicable state or federal law to protect the value in that asset. There is no reason you should lose your house if your attorney does their job correctly and obtains the necessary information to advise you on the best option in your case. Getting a quality bankruptcy attorney is your first step towards finding the answer in your case.