Both of you need to walk, hand in hand, and see a bankruptcy lawyer and do it yesterday. The house is on fire, and you still have not called the fire department. The lawyer will tell you. My guess is that doing a joint 13 and treating the 13 payment as a debt to be divided in the dissolution is the best bet, but it is too complex and too little information to tell you definitively. You may be able to get some of your money back from the bank levies. It may take some time, but just sitting there and being miserable is not going to help you
Answered on Jul 16th, 2012 at 12:07 PM