As you describe your situation, your best option may be to walk away from your lender.? We have experienced such situations where the mortgage is much greater than the FMV of the property, yet the bank will not negotiate what should be a reasonable mortgage. Lenders are not compelled to reaffirm loans on secured property but most do, except for large lenders regarding mortgages. If a short sale or DIL is not options for you, and the lender also must agree to such option, walking away from the property may be your best option. Realize that foreclosure may take many months, even after you receive the complaint. So you don't have to "walk away" immediately, just realize that you may live there many months; during the foreclosure process, you can continue to request some reasonable response from the lender but don't rely on any definite change of attitude from such lenders. May this information based on the facts in your inquiry help you to deal with a stressful situation,
Answered on Jun 11th, 2013 at 2:29 PM