i was in a modification and then my home we in to forecloser and no in wellsfargo is returning any of my calls and if i do speak to then i get the rnt

Welcome to the club.  Modification has become a very random process.  You need to stick with it to get it to work.  The foreclosure is in large part separate.  You need to answer the case and keep up with the court dates.  Otherwise, the foreclosure will come to a head too quickly.  Finally, NY State courts now have mandatory modification conferences.  Do these.  It will slow the case, and give you one more crack at getting a deal on modification.