If you are "well above the median" then it is quite likely that you will be forced into a chapter 13. The car you are financing is not worth what you owe, but if you just bought it last year, you will have to get current on the payments through the chapter 13 plan or surrender it and take your chances on buying another one while you are in bankruptcy. The trustee will question whether your 16 year old son really needs a car, but if you really want to keep it, you should repair or replace it before filing for bankruptcy and don't finance the replacement, since the trustee could void the recent indebtedness. Depending on the amount of your unsecured debt, bankruptcy may or may not be the best option for you. Most bankruptcy attorneys (like me) offer a free consultation to help you decide the best way to get your debt under control.
Answered on Nov 04th, 2014 at 11:07 AM