A deed in lieu might be a good deal for both you and the bank, but it will only work if both you and the bank agree. You cannot force the bank to accept a deed in lieu. Under no circumstances should you sign anything that obligates you to pay any money to the bank, ever, no matter what. If the bank won't foreclose and won't accept the deed in lieu, then hire a real estate agent to rent the house out. Collect the rent and keep it (but be sure to report it on your taxes). Turn a lemon into an asset. Don't worry about what Bank of America is "showing". They do not determine what is owed and what is not. You have your discharge. Just relax. One piece of advice. Make sure that there is insurance on the house. Your insurance, not the bank's insurance. You need to protect yourself against property owner's liability if there is a personal injury on your property. Keep the insurance until the deed in lieu is recorded or the foreclosure is complete.
Answered on Jun 22nd, 2012 at 7:12 PM