Probably you should file for bankruptcy. The amount of debt alone is only part of the picture, but if your husband is not working, even if you are, and you can't pay the debt, it sounds like bankruptcy to me. OTOH, don't listen to anything those vampires from the collections industry tell you. They lie 9 times before breakfast and at least once on every phone call. If they could just put a lien on your house, don't you think they would have already done so. Don't ignore them, but don't believe them, either and don't for one millisecond let them be rude or disrespectful to you or to your family. Tell the bill collectors to pound sand. Then go see a bankruptcy lawyer.
Answered on Jun 27th, 2012 at 6:38 PM