Neither. In general student loans are non-dischargeable. Unless you, or your daughter, have other financial issues besides the student loans, bankruptcy is not going to help. If she files bankruptcy to get rid of other debts, the student loan debt will remain. Ditto for you, whether it is a7 or a 13. You being married complicates matters for you. I recommend that your daughter apply for a deferment on her student loan payments. I also recommend that, while the loans are deferred she make whatever payments she can pay anyway, so that at least the problem is not getting worse. Your daughter is at the beginning of her working life and her wages will likely increase in the future. She will be better able to pay her student loans then. It is small comfort, I know, but you are not the only one with this problem. A whole generation of young people are graduating with very high student loan debt and finding that the jobs they can get just don't pay enough to live and still pay the student loans. While you can only deal with the system as it is now, the more pressure on Congress to fix this problem the better.
Answered on Jul 31st, 2012 at 8:00 PM