Yes, it's usually better to get a deed in lieu or a short sale (few lenders will do a deed in lieu unless you have had the house on the market to show that a short sale won't work). This avoids having a foreclosure on your credit history and avoids the liability from having a vacant house. Once you have informed the lender that the debt was discharged in a bankruptcy, it's the lender's responsibility to check it out not yours. Simply by informing them of your discharge, you've done everything which is required of you. You might need an attorney to work out the details of a short sale or deed in lieu. Many lenders will not deal with discharged borrowers to avoid any allegation of harassment.
Answered on Apr 22nd, 2015 at 6:01 AM