Is there any way to bypass the resident manager and apply directly with the owner? I didnt trust my personal information with her at all

It is not clear, but it appears that you are asking whether you have a legal right to avoid dealing with the agent appointed by the owner of real property with respect to a residential lease. The answer is "yes" -- if you can identify the owner, contact him or her and get him to agree to deal with you, then fine; but that person may simply reject your inquiries and direct you back to the resident manager. Indeed, dealing with people like you is precisely what the owner pays the manager for.