Appellate Practice Attorney serving New York, NY
Mediation, although often preferable to litigation (a) is not binding; and (b) can only be done if both sides consent. Given that you both live in different states, it is unlikely that the other side will agree to a mediaiton in your state. If you attempt to start a mediaton, however, he may choose a preemptive strike by suing you in his state. Also, if you use a professional mediation service, it can be expensive. Although mediation is not as expensive as litigation, the money is largely spent up front, whereas litigation expenses are more backloaded, - the biggest litigationexpense is trial (although you may have to pay a substantial retainer if you use a lawyer), and perhaps 80% or more of civil litigations settle before trial. Moreover, filing a lawsuit does not in any way bar the parties from also attempting to mediate their dispute, perhaps through the Court which may have a free or inexpensive mediation program. Given these facts, it may be that your best option is to file a lawsuit.
Answered on Feb 21st, 2013 at 11:16 AM