My husband was accused by our neigbor of standing in front of our patio window naked and staying at her. I think she got her daughter and friends con

I can see that you and your husband are in a difficult, and embarassing situation. Unfortunately you do not provide sufficient information to make any opinions, or offer any options. What you need to do is to gather all of your facts, and sit down with an attorney who has handled these types of matters, as I have. There are many details that need to be put together, and correlated so that one can prove who said what, that what was said was false, that the false statements caused damages, and exactly what those damages are.