I believe my privacy was violated by my healthcare provider my medical info family history and blood work results were given to a third party ie a we

You should check your health insurance policy.  chances are somewhere in the paperwork you have received, you were told that this information was going to be shared with the wellness company because the idea is that the wellness company monitors your health and gives you information that is designed to make you more healthy, and reduce your medical costs and claims.  So when you signed up for the insurance, there was probably a place where you were told the information was going to be shared.