If you hired an attorney in 2010 to represent you in a divorce case, but the property settlement part has never been finalized, what can be done?

I paid approximately 3,000 for everytjinh to be finalized. The divorce was finalized in 2011, but the distributing of 401k contributions was never settled. The original attorney became a judge, she never personally contacted me to let me know or to tell me that her husband would take over my case. I realized it after calling for information. I have called many times throughout the years, to have a visit or two...and to hear multiple people take messages and say that he would call me back. He may have called twice. I have even wrote letters, in one I know I asked for half of my money back. But, no metion about that. This cloud has been hanging over my head for too long and it has really frustrated me because I was and still am a struggling mother, who took all of my tax money then, and paid for a divorce to be settled. It shouldn't take almost 7 years for it to be settled. I feel the attorney did not do her job completely.