On Friday of this past week, I received a phone call from the funeral home director that handled the arrangements for my mother\'\'s funeral. Continued:

He stated that he had been audited and in that, he found my mothers ashes and wanted to know if I had nmy dads military dischsrge pspers because he had to fill out a DD214 form in order for my mother\'\'s ashes to be placed in Salisbury at the Natiional Cemetary with my father\'\'s ashes. This would have been fine except for the fact that my mother passed away almost 2 years ago on September 5th, 2010. This has been incredibly difficult to deal with on my part. Its been like jhaving to go through their funeral\'\'s all over again. I just received the paperwork for the headstone and cemetary papers from the Dept. of Veteran Affairs. Not only is he negligent for the bad job he has done, he has stressed me out trememdously. Do I have any recourse? Any advise would be most appreciated.