Appellate Practice Attorney serving New York, NY
It depends. A promise made without consideration, or detrimental reliance by the promisee, is generally not binding; a promise made for consideration is a contract. If your dad's ex-girlfriend gratuitously offered to share the benefits, it is not enforceable, but if she agreed to share the benefits as a settlement of a dispute she was having with you over who should get them, that could be enforceable. Some states, however, require settlement agreements to be more formal than a run of the mill contract (I'm not sure if NJ is one), and this letter may not meet those requirements.
Answered on Aug 21st, 2014 at 7:41 AM