He sounds like a sick puppy." You cannot use his impregnating his daughter to prove his abusing you. It is possible that if there were others also abused to use it as a "pattern and practice." To sue him, you would have to be able to prove specific events. I have handled a similar case in the past, and I can tell you that after this long a time span, you will need to be specific. Not only as to what he did, but when. I suggest that you make contact with Child Protective Services and with their help, contact the police to pursue criminal charges. CPS will hopefully help you develop accurate dates, etc. before you go to the police. You can also sue civilly for damages, but since these acts are considered intentional, there would be no insurance coverage. As to your mom, if you can prove that she actually knew it was happening, or that there were sufficient "clues" that would make it reasonable that she should have known, you could sue her. The claim against her would be based on her negligently failing to act to protect you, and that would be covered by her homeowner's insurance (if she has any). The damages you would seek would (or should) include such psychiatric/psychological care as is required to help you overcome the emotional damage that this behavior would cause. I wish you good luck. I hope that you can also find a good, sensitive, and caring lawyer to help you.
Answered on Jun 17th, 2015 at 2:04 PM