How do I coordinate child care with the alleged victim after getting an NCO in a domestic assault case?

The lawyer that represents you on the case can file a motion to modify any protective order (no contact order, etc) thats in place, and, a motion to modify the bond conditions prohibiting contact. These things are not set in stone, and the Judge has the discretion to modify them to accomodate child-care and custody issues. Keep in mind, lawyers do not typically accept representation for these type issues for the sole purpose of modifying these type of orders. This is because in a criminal case, once the lawyer has signed on as your attorney of record, they are obligated as your attorney for all purposes related to the criminal charges, not just for the limited purpose of helping you to modify bond conditions or a protective order.