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How do I defend myself against domestic violence?

Asked on Sep 26th, 2011 on Criminal Law - California
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I am a victim of domestic violence. What do I do?
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Transportation Attorney serving Mamaroneck, NY at Palumbo & Associates, PC
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Call the police and make a complaint.
Answered on Jul 08th, 2013 at 10:43 PM

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Steven D. Dunnings
Have you called the police when the violence occurred? If so, have criminal charges been filed against the person?
Answered on Jul 08th, 2013 at 10:40 PM

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Criminal Law Attorney serving Lancaster, NH at Harden Law Office
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You can contact the police and /or seek a restraining order.
Answered on Jun 19th, 2013 at 9:15 PM

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Family Attorney serving Traverse City, MI at Craig W. Elhart, PC
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Report the incident to the police.
Answered on Jun 19th, 2013 at 8:47 PM

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Jacob P. Sartz
If you are the "victim," then you should call the police and look into filing a personal protection order, especially if there is a history of this alleged conduct. Further, individuals who have suffered from this behavior, there may be support groups or therapy sessions available.
Answered on Oct 24th, 2011 at 6:29 PM

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Appellate Practice Attorney serving Clinton Township, MI at Thomas J. Tomko, Attorney at Law
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Thank you for your inquiry You should hire an attorney to review the facts in your case and then develop a strategy on how to defend against the claims. It may be a situation which involves some investigation, gathering of evidence, and then even meeting with the prosecutor at a Pre-Trial Conference. It may include having to go to trial. In some cases, a case can be dismissed without the need to go to trial, however, it will depend on the facts in your case. Should you wish to discuss this matter, you should contact my office to arrange an appointment. I hope that this was helpful.
Answered on Oct 04th, 2011 at 2:16 PM

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Bankruptcy Attorney serving Federal Way, WA at Freeborn Law Offices P.S.
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If you are a victim of domestic violence you need to call the police and do it sooner than later, especially if you have suffered physical abuse. The police will direct you to the various agencies and services that are available to you. Please do not take this lightly as the abuse generally escalates in severity if steps are not taken to stop it.
Answered on Sep 29th, 2011 at 7:45 AM

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If you are a victim of domestic violence you should first get out of the situation that you are in where the domestic violence is happening. You should contact a battered womans shelter even if you are a man. You should file a police report with all the incidents spelled out. You should have all the medical reports with you when you make the police report. You need to get a temporary restraining order. Do not believe them if they say they are sorry and it will never happen again. It will happen again.
Answered on Sep 29th, 2011 at 5:45 AM

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In every jurisdiction in Utah there are safe houses and victim's advocates. Look in the phone book and find them. If you can't find them call the local law enforcement office and get the number from them. They will help you and make sure you are ok. Don't wait until the next time. Do it now.
Answered on Sep 28th, 2011 at 1:50 PM

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General Practice Attorney serving Woburn, MA at AyerHoffman, LLP
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Domestic violence situations are very tricky. You should call the police immediately when trouble arises. Do not try to take any matters into your own hands, even in self-defense, especially if you are male. If you are in fear of imminent physical harm, you can go to your local district court and apply for a 209-A Abuse Prevention Order. The police may be able to help you with this. This is a form of restraining order available to people who cohabit requiring the offending party to stay away from the complainant. It is very easy to get. It is good for ten days, after which there will be a hearing to determine if it should be extended. It is a criminal offense to violate this order. If your partner violates it in any manner, call the police and explain you have a 209-A which has been violated.
Answered on Sep 28th, 2011 at 12:15 PM

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Daniel Kieth Martin
Find a shelter in your city and get away, do this right now. Do not worry about property, jobs, pets, anything. I know it sounds like I am overreacting but you can be killed. I am aware of multiple cases where the victim of domestic violence has been killed. You have made the first steps, you asked for help here. The next thing to do is search for a shelter and get to the shelter as soon as possible. Notice that I did not say friend or family that is because there is a good chance the abuser will find you there and be more upset than ever. I hope things work out for you, do not deserve this.
Answered on Sep 28th, 2011 at 10:13 AM

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Adoptions Attorney serving Lansing, MI at Austin Legal Services, PLC
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If you are a victim of domestic violence, you need to contact the police so they can take a report and demand that they file charges. You can also file for a Personal Protection Order or Restraining Order. If you feel that you are still in danger, strongly consider contacting an agency that specializes in aiding battered victims of domestic violence. Whatever you do, you need to take action as soon as possible.
Answered on Sep 28th, 2011 at 9:59 AM

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You need to report it to the police and the police will protect you with a restraining order. Get out of there. No one deserves that.
Answered on Sep 28th, 2011 at 7:37 AM

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Michael J. Breczinski
Move out of the situation. Stop being in a relationship with the person. A person who abuses their spouse or mate is not fit to have a spouse or mate.
Answered on Sep 28th, 2011 at 7:26 AM

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Drug Charges Attorney serving Houston, TX at Cynthia Henley
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If you are being assaulted - victimized - then you should leave the situation - go live somewhere else. There is help all over the state now for victims and if you do not have any place to stay, you can get help finding a place until you get on your feet. If you are assaulted again in any way - touched in any way that you do not like or that causes you pain - call the police. The person will be arrested and you can ask for a MOEP (Magistrate's Order for Emergency Protection) that will keep the person away from your home and your work, and order them not to threaten you directly or indirectly. The initial MOEP would be for 61 days but an additional MOEP could be obtained for up to 2 years.
Answered on Sep 28th, 2011 at 7:26 AM

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you cango to the police and they will charge this person - and they will get you a restraining order. If youguys live together they will order him out of the house.
Answered on Sep 28th, 2011 at 6:57 AM

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Gary Moore
File a domestic violence complaint.
Answered on Sep 28th, 2011 at 6:35 AM

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Local police department usually has confidential access to an officer who specializes in Domestic Violence and abuse. Many online sites for counseling and advice. If childred involved, department of social services will intervene. DO NOT continue to be a victim. Usually abuse escalates to more violent behavior, especially if alcohol is involved. Civil restraining orders are available through the Dissolution courts. Restraining orders are also issued by dourt or police if charges are brought.
Answered on Sep 28th, 2011 at 6:34 AM

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