I'd recommend you retain a lawyer to assist you with this matter. These matters can be tricky and need to be presented properly before the court for them to be granted. Speaking generally, restraining orders and PPO's are handled by filing a motion through the local family court in your county. The court clerk's office will have the appropriate forms. People filing these motions need to document all the instances of violent and threatening behavior and attach any proof with their motion (threatening text messages, e-mails, police reports, etc.). They'll need documented instances of violent and threatening behavior with proof and potential witnesses available to testify; preferably at least wo or more instances. These motions may be filed, served, and granted ex-parte and the opposing party has an opportunity to file an answer and request a hearing. Given the potential complexity and explosive nature of your particular situation, I strongly urge you to obtain legal council to assist you with this matter. If you cannot afford legal council, there may be groups in your area such as legal aid that can assist you and provide you with free advice.
Answered on Jan 19th, 2012 at 9:13 AM