poured water my ex girlfriend head she was with another man told me she was staying single days later her daughter threw hot coffee my face at church

You could be charged with the criminal offense of battery (or potentially domestic violence battery) for pouring a drink over her head.  That carries up to a year in jail and/or a year of probation, plus fines/court costs.  There, also, are some other collateral consequences that could have long-time impacts if you are charged and convicted.  If you're lucky, your ex-girlfriend will consider what her daughter did as sufficient to "even the score;" and, therefore, not file any complaint with law enforcement. As for what the daughter did to you, you have the right to file a complaint against her for battery.  But if you do, I would expect your ex-girlfriend would file a battery, or domestic battery, charge against you.  So whether you want to take that risk by filing a complaint against her daughter is up to you.  However, unless far more than your pride was injured, you may have more to lose, than gain, by filing a complaint against your ex-girlfriend's daughter.