He will have a lawyer appointed who will try to get a Disorderly Conduct violation as opposed to an Assault conviction. He will probably get counseling or anger management and the case could be resolved without a criminal conviction which might prevent him from being a citizen. Men must learn to communicate properly and not pt their hands on a woman or abuse her in any way. Only uneducated and unsophisticated people resort to violence when they get angry because they have not learned to control their emotions and they do not fully realize the serious consequences of committing a crime. You too must learn to argue respectfully and compromise, not scream or use name calling. You should not have blocked the door or called the police, especially if he is not a citizen. You should have made him go to counseling to learn how to act like a gentleman and you should also learn how to avoid arguments by studying good communication skills, compromise, and how to handle difficult situations.
Answered on Nov 14th, 2012 at 7:54 AM