The discretion to pursue a case is not with the victim, it is with the prosecutor. They sometimes force a woman to appear and testify with threats and sometimes they do not bother trying to locate her or produce her for trial. It is their decision in any event and they do not appreciate women who have men arrested and then want to "drop the charges" but they may be willing to listen to your wishes as to punishment and you always have the right to speak at sentencing.
Answered on Dec 03rd, 2013 at 4:00 PM