Can a bondsman for my daughter threaten and come after me for my daughters failure to appear in court

I have posted bond for my daughter twice She missed court, did a walk through I paid 500 on $5000 she missed court again bond was $10k I paid $1000 I did a release to take funds from cc on 1 the 2nd bond a 3rd time My kid missed court-was to do a walk through-bondsman took 1k out of my acct before my Kid was booked-when she arrived For walkthru she was told by bondsman that it was a no hold bond and to leave to do another day-my daughter has been avoiding going bondsman has $1000 of my money never used for bond told me she will not return it, now threatening to come to my home and harass my family I am caring for my parents in my home both in hospice w/ mom active dying. Bondsman wants $15k right now to cover bonds because she said she can’t work and is threatening to harass my family if I don’t pay all now What do I do I do not work I do not have that kind of money I feel bad for her want to help but she is vicious and wants money now