First regarding your Miranda rights. The police are supposed to read you your rights if you are a suspect and under arrest but many times they do not. The only "punishment" to the cops or "compensation" to you is that any inclupatory (guilty) statements that you made to police can be suppressed. Any statements that you made while they were investigating - talking to everyone about what happened & before they decided to arrest you - are not subject to being suppressed because you were not in custody nor were you the focus of the investigation. Second - self defense. You have the right to use force to the extent necessary to defend yourself against another's unlawful used of force (at least in Texas.) So, if she is hitting you, you have the right to grab her, slap her hands away, hit her to throw her off from hitting you, etc. What you cannot do is once she has stopped hitting you, reflect on how that makes you angry, and walk over to her & hit her. You can't "restart" the physical altercation. (Obviously this is a very blurry line on whether a physical attack has stopped or not, etc.) That said, even if the police believed that the issue was over and then you went over to her and hit her without just cause, under the facts you have given she, too, should have been arrested for assault. Even if you assault her later, that did not justify her assault on you. So, I'm not sure why you were arrested except that either your friends didn't support your version; she told a completely different version and the cops chose to believe her; your friends supported you and your version but her version was different & the cops thought that your friends were your friends and were covering for her; or the cops felt that the physical part was over & you restarted it (and didn't arrest her because, as you put it, her "putting her hands on you" didn't rise to the level of what you did to her and they felt sorry for her; or some other reason that only the cops could dream up at that time. Can the case be dismissed? Yes. The prosecutor may believe you had the right to self defense; that the situation is such a mess that it should all just go away; that she started it even if you went too far; etc. However, you will need a lawyer to represent you. The lawyer will probably need to talk to all of your witnesses. The lawyer will have access to the offense report and can dissect what the cops have written. The lawyer can then artfully articulate to the prosecutor why the case should be dismissed - or set the case for trial to push the issue.
Answered on Jun 22nd, 2011 at 10:20 AM