Can I sue someone for taking pictures, making videos, songs about me and posting them online and spreading rumors about me and trying to find out abou

You can sue for liable and slander if it has caused you monetary loss. You can also file for an injunction if necessary. The cost can be high so it is helpful to determine that they can pay if you get a judgment. There may be criminal charges possible if there has been a trespass on your property. Call the local police to see if they can make a case.