If you have been subpoenaed, you have to go to court. If you fail to show, the judge could issue a material witness warrant. If you choose not to testify, your husband could get off with the charges being potentially dismissed. Then where are you?? Back where you were before... so he can potentially assault you and your 1 year old son!! If you don't care about yourself, at least think of the welfare of your son. If such a situation occurs, you could end up loosing your son to CPS. Go to court and do what is necessary. If it helps, think of it this way... you testimony is a consequence of HIS actions. As I tell people who appear before me when I am sitting as judge... I never put anyone in jail. They put themselves there through their chosen course of action. A person can do whatever they want with their life... good or bad... as long as they are willing to accept the consequences that come from the decisions (good or bad) that they make. Think about it. If your husband is convicted, it is because of what he did, not what you did.
Answered on Oct 04th, 2013 at 12:11 PM