What's your age difference? If more than 5 years, state might not drop the charges. Otherwise, if you don't show up in court, state will probably drop the charges. Also, you can send a letter to the state prosecutor asking that the charges be dropped, and withdrawing any complaints. If your parents filed the charges, you will probably not be able to drop or withdraw them if your parents don't consent. Of course, the ultimate decision will depend on the prosecutor. For the most part they are too busy with other cases to bother with the ones where the victim does not want to press charges. However, since this is a criminal matter, the prosecutor does have the discretion to pursue it, even if you want to drop charges. If so, you will be subpoenaed into court, and subject to arrest for not showing up. You will have to answer the questions truthfully if you are called to the stand. Your answers will probably be sufficient to convict on the statutory rape charges, which are based entirely on your age below age of consent. The only potential defense to the defendant is if he "actually and reasonably believed" you were over the age of consent. If you say you told him you were 18, and have photos showing that you "looked" over 18 at the time, then that could serve as a complete defense to the defendant. It will probably still require a jury trial to get to that point.
Answered on Mar 14th, 2013 at 1:37 PM