How much should I settle for if insurers are asking for us to name a price?

An altercation escalated at a restaurant when we asked for a refill. Two employees were present and started calling us cheap Asians. They then began to lock the door keeping us hostage and started to choke my boyfriend and grabbed my arm from preventing me from opening the door. My boyfriend did not hit them. He only tried to push them off as self defense. We were left with strangle marks and so on. Where should we start? I have this all on my iPhone because I pulled it out in time.