The best way to help your friend is to be available if his lawyer has questions - and possibly help him financially with his lawyer. It is true that a "victim" can't just "drop charges" as it is the prosecutor who decides if charges should go forward. However, the prosecutor must consider what the "victim" wants, under the "Victim's Rights Act" - that does not mean that the prosecutor has to do what the victim wants - just that they have to consider it. There are cases where it helps for the victim to get a lawyer - sometimes the lawyer can present things to the prosecutor in a manner more persuasively than the victim can do on their own.
Answered on Oct 31st, 2016 at 2:42 PM