Regardless of whether it's a regular occurrence or not, it's a crime and should not be tolerated, especially if you are going to have a baby. If he gets by with it with no consequences, nothing is to stop or deter him from doing it again. That being said... In answer to your question, it is solely up to the prosecutor on whether or not to pursue charges. You can offer your input and request for them to be dismissed, but they don't have to. They can and sometimes do proceed without a victims' cooperation because if they court order you to appear and testify, you can be held in contempt if you do not.
Answered on Mar 14th, 2013 at 8:16 PM