Im in jail for my 3rd domestic violence this year and was out on bond for petit theft at the time

You cannot dictate whether the state attorney proceeds with the domestic violence charges against your boyfriend.  It is up to the state to make that decision regardless of your desire.  However, your chances of getting the state to drop the charge is better in some areas of the state than others. My suggestion is to contact the State Attorney's Office where the alleged incident occurred and let someone there know that you want the charge dropped -- i.e., you want to sign a waiver of prosecution.  In some areas of the state that may be sufficient to get the charge dropped.  In other areas of the state, you may need to attend a class or view some video regarding domestic violence (even if you are the victim); some offices will make you take the class/watch the video and still decide not to the drop the charge.   Regardless, the first step is to let the prosecutor's office know that you want to drop the charge.  Then that office should let you know what is requires to comply with your request.