Unfortunately, it will not be possible to "get all of this dropped" without going to court. Once an arrest has been made, the case will go to court, regardless of your desire to press charges or not. It will now be up to the prosecutor to determine how to dispose of the case; however, you as the complaining witness can certainly influence the prosecutor's decision. As a victim, you have a right to be heard, and the prosecutor will also have to factor in your unwillingness to participate in the prosecution. Typically, if the incident was minor, the case will be referred to Family Relations, who may accept the case and work out a resolution that will induce the prosecutor to enter a nolle, essentially dismissing the case so long as there are no new arrests over the next 13 months. Your girlfriend should contact an experienced criminal defense attorney to discuss the specific facts and circumstances of her case immediately.
Answered on May 06th, 2011 at 10:37 AM