Is my letter good enough to convince the judge to withdraw the charge against my wife?

I need a sample impact letter to give the judge on behalf of my wife. She was charged with misdemeanor assault. She has no criminal background. Her first court date is January 2nd. We got into an argument and she hit me and then I pushed her. She called the police because she wanted me to leave the house. We both stated the facts, and the police arrested her because she hit me first. I had no bruises and the police did not take any pictures of me either. I told them I did not want to press charges but they said that the state does automatically. We also have 2 young children. I have written a request for both the prosecutor and judge but can you please advise if I should add anything? Your Honor: I am the alleged victim in case xxxxx, and I am a military veteran who has served this Country. This has been a huge mistake. My wife and I have been married for over 4 years. She is not a violent person nor does she have any criminal history. She is the mother of our 2 children and a loving, caring human being. I am respectfully asking the court to dismiss this case against her and also have the no contact order removed. This time has really hurt our children as they do not understand why Mommy and Daddy cannot talk nor be around each other. We will do any type of counseling that the court suggests. This has been a mistake that will never be repeated again. Thank you for taking the time to hear my request. Respectfully, xxxx xxxx (Alleged victim case xxx)