It really depends on the prosecutor and what their policy is on handling such matters. It is up to the prosecutor and the prosecutor alone to decide whether or not to press charges, and whether or not to continue pursuing the case once charges have been filed. You will be subpoenaed to court to testify and if you refuse, you could be held in contempt of court, have a bench warrant issued, and be fined and/or jailed up to 93 days. Often the prosecutor does not like to proceed with an un-cooperative or reluctant victim, but they can and sometimes do. They may be more inclined to proceed if there was significant physical harm and if he has priors for similar offenses. You can discuss the matter of dropping the case with the prosecutor, but at the end of the day it will be his decision. I would not advise you to ignore or violate any court orders.
Answered on Oct 18th, 2013 at 1:11 PM