will i be arrested if i return to court without an attorney after being told to get one. it has been passed twice and i still havent gotten a lawyer

Ask your local OK lawyer. It is possible. My experience is that the court make people get a private attorney or sign up with the PD, so the court systems run smoothly and things like this don't happen, because the police and witnesses will once be in court and you will not be ready. If you get an attorney now, he can usually get  a continuance if he asks due to a scheduling conflict.