I just found out that my ex-husband retired. In the divorce, it was stated that I am entitled to half of it. There is no mention of a limitation to file or anything else.
The court should have granted a Qualified Domestic Relations Order (QDRO) to get the retirement. If they did not then go back to court (with a lawyer) and get a QDRO to get your share of the retirement. Pensions come in monthly payments. 401ks and such may come in a lump sum. Any distributions before retirement age are penalized and taxed.
You get your share generally, in the same manner that he gets his, which is monthly. You can be bought out of your share, but that is done by mutual agreement and is usually done during the divorce.
Whether or not you can request a lump sum payment depends on the wording of your Final Judgment and the Plan documents. You need those documents reviewed by an attorney.
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