The answer may, in part, depend upon the language that was used in the decree awarding lifetime spousal maintenance. As a general rule this type of spousal maintenance is payable until either your death or remarriage. If you have not married the gentleman, then it would appear that your ex-husband cannot properly end the spousal maintenance. You should consult with an experienced family law attorney, and be sure you have a copy of the decree with you.
Answered on Jun 11th, 2013 at 11:44 AM