Absolutely not. He still owes you every nickel of child support he did not pay, plus interest. To enforce support, contact a lawyer or your local Department of Child Support Services (DCSS). They are part of county government. A lawyer is faster, but DCSS is free. Pick whichever alternative is best for your current situation. There are many ways of collecting child support. The easiest is an Income Withholding Order, sort of like a wage garnishment. The DCSS will issue one and serve it on his employer. The employer will hold out whatever the order says and send it to DCSS and then you will get money from the Sacramento statewide DCSS that sends out the money. They set up special checking accounts and electronically deposit the money. You get a debit card, which you can use for purchases or you can take cash out of an ATM, or transfer into your own bank account. Pretty nifty. DCSS can also intercept his tax refunds, but state and federal. If he is self-employed there are other tricks to get the money. It is like my wife says about working with a horse. You don't force him to do anything. You just make it more comfortable for the horse to do what you want than to do what the horse wants to do. Former husbands are a lot like horses that way. That said, the amount of child support is not carved in stone. It is based on your income, his income and the amount of time that each parent takes primary responsibility for the children. (Notice nothing about new spouses in that formula.) Your working income will "count". Rather than mess around enforcing an order you know is higher than it should be, you should be willing to change the support level to a more appropriate amount. DCSS can help here, too. Once the IWO is in place and working, invite him to come to DCSS with you and all his forms filled out and copies of his pay stubs and work out a new agreement. You should be aware that, when DCSS is involved, there will be a delay in the initial payment and a small delay after that. Once the IWO goes to his employer it is likely that he will stop paying altogether. The IWO takes effect at the next pay day that is at least 10 days after the employer receives notice. Then they are not required to send their check to DCSS on payday. Finally DCSS takes up to 3 business days before sending the money to you. Be prepared for this delay in the startup.
Answered on Aug 21st, 2012 at 2:36 AM