You can always ask. If your husband won't agree, a judge will decide after hearing all the relevant facts. The relevant facts involved comparing your needs versus your husband's ability to pay and after being separated for 10 years, the question of what you have been doing during that time could be significant to the ultimate decision. You will probably be awarded some spousal maintenance, but the question of how much and for how long requires much more information to answer.
Answered on Sep 21st, 2012 at 12:32 PM