Do you know where he is? If so, you can file a Petition for Dissolution of Marriage with a Summons and have him personally served by the County Sheriff in the county where he resides (even if he is out of state). Once he is personally served and the proof of service is filed with the court in which the dissolution case is filed, he has 30 days to file an answer or you can file a motion for default. Once the motion for default is granted, you can file a judgment for dissolution of marriage. Your marriage is OVER when the judge signs the judgment.
Answered on Aug 04th, 2015 at 1:17 PM