If your Judgment of Divorce does not address the 401(k), you might be able to convince a Judge to "re-open" the case, but you will have to prove fraud/misrepresentation on the part of your ex, which can be challenging to do. Time is definitely of the essence in your situation, so I would kindly recommend you consult with a Divorce Lawyer ASAP.
Answered on Aug 14th, 2013 at 3:44 PM