My husband and I are getting a divorce and since I started recently working, he has the kids. He also has a medical condition and now his lawyer wants to sue me for abandonment.
I'm not sure what your husband is telling you, but "abandonment" isn't a specific legal cause of action. Arizona is a no-fault state, so the cause of the divorce doesn't matter - as long as the marriage is "irretrievably broken without reasonable prospect of reconciliation," either of you can file for divorce. You indicated that he "has the kids" - if you have not made an effort to maintain a normal parental relationship with them, this may affect the outcome of the orders regarding custody and parenting time; however, if you are still maintaining this relationship, then the fact that they are living with him will not necessarily be held against you.
Abandonment requires a showing that you left the children without providing your contact information and no means of support. It is hard to prove unless you have been absent for an extended period of time. It's rare given the kids are with there father too. You should consult with a family law attorney.
You are obviously not living in Colorado because "suing you for abandonment" means nothing in Colorado . So you need to consult an attorney of your own to find out whether your husband's lawyer is really saying anything that makes sense, if he is really saying what you think he is saying. In some states, "abandonment" may be grounds for divorce - but not a separate lawsuit.
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