Unfortunately, a lot of divorce lawyers are unprepared to handle a divorce involving a career service member. The answer to your question depends on the substantive law of the State in which the divorce will be heard, meaning that the portion of your retirement to which she may be entitled is not determined by federal law, but by state law. The problem arises is the drafting of the final divorce papers. The federal government will interpret the phraseology used in the final divorce papers in predictable ways that most attorneys do not know. Using the wrong phraseology can get results neither attorney ever expected and which the court never intended. The answer to your question, technically, is that yes she can ask for the sun, the moon and all the stars.
Answered on Jan 10th, 2013 at 10:42 AM