Do I get a divorce in the same state I got married

Thanks for posting yoir question. Toxic relationships are no fun at all. You can file for divorce in the county you are in. You can go to the family court in your county and speak with the court clerk for more information as to how to move forward and request a Pro Bono attorney (someone that volunteers to gain experience.) Otherwise a private attorney for a divorce is anywhere from $750 - $3,500. Feel free to contact my office and speak with a case manager at 877-866-8665 or email help@smsattorneys.com as we do also offer reduced price services for PRO SE people who can't afford an attorney but able to represent themselves in court.