Your statement that you are divorcing suggests that there is nothing happening in a court yet. If so, you need to file the divorce papers as soon as possible and then it will be possible to deal with the issues you raise. Until there is a court case ongoing, however, there is nothing you can do. Contact a lawyer for more information about your options and the law of the state where you live.
Answered on Feb 26th, 2013 at 2:21 PM