In California, if you and your spouse are in agreement, you can file for the Dissolution and serve him by mail (he will have to send you back and Acknowledgement of Receipt). Then you can each do your required Disclosures, and finally, you can prepare your Stipulated Judgment, have him sign it and file it with the court. Otherwise, once he is served, you would also go forward with a Default Judgment (assuming he doesn't file a Response and doesn't want to be involved in the case).
Answered on Dec 12th, 2013 at 6:34 PM