If she will not agree voluntarily to move, the only option for forcing her removal before the expiration of the lease term is to seek a court order after filing your divorce action. However, I caution: (1) inasmuch as you have already voluntarily left the home; the court is not likely to order that she move; and (2) if you have been the primary source of her financial support in a 17 year marriage, the court is very likely to require that you continue to contribute to her financial support for a period of time during and after the divorce (i.e., spousal maintenance or alimony) that will allow her to continue to pay the rent, etc.
Answered on Mar 11th, 2013 at 3:19 PM